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Wednesday, September 15, 2010

Your Self Image = How You to Call ?



Have you ever experienced, while in a small discussion with someone, and you're trying to answer the question, but suddenly the questioner instead hung say goodbye, because they have to receive calls? Annoying is not it? Still mending if concerned still have a little modesty: goodbye and apologize, but if no ba-bu-bi foster direct telephone, as if you were not there? How do you feel when it?
This often we experience, or we may even have to be the culprit? How many of us, thanks to the sophistication of today's communications technology called cellular phone (HP) has left manners, ethics, manners, or whatever his name, which makes other people feel unappreciated, do not even feel the 'people' do. Information or communication technology is a lot of human help in overcoming communication barriers, ease of information need, as well as other benefits. But many also result in moral values and our human degradation due to its sophistication. But we need blame this technology? Like a dagger, which many mothers help in the kitchen, but occasionally also could hurt people, even can be used to commit armed robbery or other violent means. Knives certainly not guilty, according to the purpose of creation, he was very helpful. But it would be a threat, when abused by humans. 

Finally we conclude in fact a good or bad depending on the technology in humans who use them. All would agree. Humans themselves who need to correct himself whether it has been increasingly forgotten his own values. 

In the case of this phone, many events that make us uncomfortable, of whom I have often experienced something like this: 
  1. We're enjoying eating (fortune of God), suddenly the phone rang. Denied, rang again. Appointed was not important. In fact, it reduces our appetite, and even interfere with the enjoyment fellow next to us (during meals). It is also common when this is resting (sleeping). Fixed phone is turned on at a moment like that, of course meant to stay connected with emergency information only. If this happens and you're the caller, then the 'value' you really have to fall, could be labeled as an ungrateful people, not polite, even insolent. 
  2. Outside the critical hours as above said, I've also experienced my phone rang many times, but I can not carry it because it was driving, and had no place to stop. People who meredial up many times like this, shows he is a man who arrogant, pretentious title and who clearly have no ethics. I included that strongly disagree with people who are driving while phoning. Because, driving while phoning is also showing people who do not care about other people, threatening the safety of themselves and other road users. 
  3. I also never received a negative perception of friends, even his own brother, because my phone died. When sipenelepon call my phone is not active. If the caller to think positive, then the perception was unnecessary. Telephone die there are only two possibilities: intentional or unintentional. Usually I turn off the phone with accidentally when: 
  • Was in a meeting room, seminar or are teaching 
  • Are running or being in the prayer room should not turn on the HP like, in the medical treatment room, on the plane or the other. 
Well, sometimes it once hung in the above situation, I continue to be rusted revived it. But what often happens is the result of a prolonged dying phone ran out of shock, because the batteries drop. 

Unfortunately, some of us have greatly diminished sense of tolerance for others, so do not need to think about situations like this that may be experienced by people who will be our contact. Therefore, easy to take it for granted or convicted "he is deliberately not accept my phone!". Though situations like that, too, must have endured. Unless it was concerned not enough bad manners, so that HP used to turn her in all circumstances, and the batteries belonging to superextended! 

Well, so you still have a value in the eyes of others, I have the following simple tips: 

  1. These tips apply only to those that can differentiate between the phone features that are not connected, busy, or simply rejected. If you can not tell, how gapteknya you? 
  2. Before calling, you should see your watch in advance, about whether the time is now appropriate to call. Intelligent person would know such a critical hour or hour lunch break (to sleep). 
  3. When you decide to call (after consideration of this critical hour), and it seems your phone is rejected, you should not directly repeat or diredial. Just imagine a positive reason why the phone was rejected. We recommend that you try again after some time (eg after 30 minutes). If still rejected, too, should you send an SMS, please state the purpose of the phone or news you want delivered, and do not forget to end with your name. This name is also an important part, especially if you are unsure of the number and your name known to the recipient. Someone might think you're arrogant, famous ass, so no need to mention names? 
  4. When you're talking to someone else, let alone listening to the other person is talking, you should not receive the phone. If there is incoming call, decline it. Let your conversation is finished, or until the other person finish his conversation. Once completed, only then you permission to call back the number that you reject this, do not forget to get out a bit further away from your interlocutor earlier. Sometimes the reason for not calling back, very trivial: pulse loss! (Ask to yourself: how many comparisons between the price of pulses with self-esteem?). Your self-image is determined by how you communicate. 

What is your opinion?


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