It is said that the word narcissistic obtained from Greek legend, who is none other than someone named Narcisuss who fell in love with a shadow of himself when reflected off the surface of a lake. Well, then the word narcissistic used to call people who are too impressed, proud, and self-adoration, sometimes the term narcissistic also popular as an act of the people who diligently take pictures-photos.
If we already know the meaning of it as a love of the narcissistic self, then well do people who 'suffer' narcissistic?
To answer the above questions, let us see the other side. We often find people (or perhaps our own?) Who always felt inferior, weak, marginalized, rejected, unappreciated, even unloved, and it seems no one would help him? The last special, I'll review at another time.
Why would someone feel inferior? If you are a man of strong faith, your religion is guaranteed to not have to feel inferior. Are not human beings were created with all the glory, even the angels have been ordered by Allah to prostrate to Adam, the first man. Who will not prostrate (devil) on Adam expelled by God from heaven, because he refused to obey it.
If we already know the meaning of it as a love of the narcissistic self, then well do people who 'suffer' narcissistic?
To answer the above questions, let us see the other side. We often find people (or perhaps our own?) Who always felt inferior, weak, marginalized, rejected, unappreciated, even unloved, and it seems no one would help him? The last special, I'll review at another time.
Why would someone feel inferior? If you are a man of strong faith, your religion is guaranteed to not have to feel inferior. Are not human beings were created with all the glory, even the angels have been ordered by Allah to prostrate to Adam, the first man. Who will not prostrate (devil) on Adam expelled by God from heaven, because he refused to obey it.
We are often trapped in standard sizes or materials owned by others, the achievements of others, personal pride in others who we admire, but we can not reach that standard, even feels like the distance between heaven and earth. As a result, we no longer see that we have, the truth can be proud of, appreciated and deserves to be loved. Feelings of inferiority is also not infrequently accompanied by regrets about yourself that do not conform with the standards we have created. The result is a 'punishment' itself prolonged. In fact, remember my story about your boat is solid, we really are as good as any, punishment is causing us tied, not getting ahead.
If so, it helps us reflect on our true self, break away from standard-size of others, then began making his own standards, reviewing the potential, which may not be owned by someone else. By doing so we cultivate pride, a sense of love yourself. How other people can accept us, if we ourselves refuse or doubting yourself, how could anyone else can love us, if we do not have a sense of self-love?
Well, if that conclusion, so narcissistic, is good for us. With narcissistic suffering, we grow in confidence, to appear brave and accept others. Of course, narcissists do not be excessive. Excessive narcissistic can cause the appearance of arrogance, excessive pride, and of course other causes of liver disease. In other words, love themselves to certain limits, do not make it addictive!
What do you think?
If so, it helps us reflect on our true self, break away from standard-size of others, then began making his own standards, reviewing the potential, which may not be owned by someone else. By doing so we cultivate pride, a sense of love yourself. How other people can accept us, if we ourselves refuse or doubting yourself, how could anyone else can love us, if we do not have a sense of self-love?
Well, if that conclusion, so narcissistic, is good for us. With narcissistic suffering, we grow in confidence, to appear brave and accept others. Of course, narcissists do not be excessive. Excessive narcissistic can cause the appearance of arrogance, excessive pride, and of course other causes of liver disease. In other words, love themselves to certain limits, do not make it addictive!
What do you think?
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